“Arts news highlights: Holidays at Lyndhurst Mansion; “”Harry Potter: A History of Magic”” at the New-York Historical Society; The Holiday Tradition of Handel’s “Messiah” from New York Philharmonic to Trinity Church; “Accumulations: Hanukkah Lamps” at The Jewish Museum; “The Holiday Train Show” at The New York Botanical Garden; “The Hard Nut” at BAM; “Hip-Hop Nutcracker” at Kings Theater.